In a relationship, a situation may arise when a partner needs to part. Parting can be temporary, for example, the departure of a young man to the army, the departure of a girl to another city for a while, etc. Also, breaking up can mean the end of the relationship. In these cases, parting with the girl will happen in different ways.
How to say goodbye to a girl for a while
Make your goodbye as romantic as possible. If you are flying by plane, arrange a romantic candlelight evening at the airport cafe, if by train - at the station restaurant. Let the girl's place of farewell be associated with something pleasant, not sad. During dinner, try not to talk about your separation. Tell her more about how much you love her, ask her to dance.
Cultivate the conversation about what you will do when you get back together. Don't forget the flowers. Before leaving, you can discreetly put a piece of paper with a love message in the girl's bag. For example, it can be such words: “Beloved, (name of the girl). As soon as I was away from you, I realized even more how I love you. I will not be sad, on the contrary, I want to smile with happiness, because I have you, I am very lucky. You are the most beautiful, loyal, kind, desirable, sympathetic, beloved, sweet, tender (choose something from these words). I love you! The main thing is that the lines come from the heart. If you do not have enough imagination to write a love letter to your soul mate, you can simply quote the poems of poets, she will undoubtedly like this option. After all, the main thing is your attention to her. She will value it above all else.
What to say to a girl when parting
Here the situation is more complicated, and it will be very difficult to say parting words. However, if you decide to do this, then do it. You should not continue the relationship, just because you feel sorry for her and do not want to offend. If you find it very difficult to say goodbye to a girl in words, write her a farewell letter. There is no need to complicate everything and paint in verse. It looks ridiculous and funny. Just describe all the reasons why you want to break up with her. Of course, one letter is not enough. You should not leave in English, leaving your partner in a misunderstanding and resentment. You definitely need to talk to her. Tell her that you felt good, that you are grateful to her for everything, but you cannot be together for certain reasons.
Women are very emotional by nature, so be prepared for her to drop a tear. If necessary, hug her, tell her how good she is. Of course, it will be unpleasant and painful for her, but over time she will calm down. An option may arise that the girl will start asking the guy to give her a second chance, cry, ask him to return everything. If these attempts are in vain, he will ask at least to remain friends. Don't fall for these words. Be firm and decisive, but don't be rude.
Try to answer all her questions so that you don't have any misunderstandings. After breaking up, it is better to stop communicating with your ex-girlfriend altogether. She must understand that the past cannot be returned, and their relationship is already in the past. Tell her: "We were good together, but now I do not love you, and that cannot be changed in any way." These are the main words that you should say goodbye to your girlfriend.
