It is believed that the ability to maintain a conversation is a talent inherent in a person from childhood. However, following a few simple rules, you can quite successfully master this art at any age.
Instructions
Step 1
Educate yourself. Read books, watch films, go to performances, do not be lazy to flip through the news feed, because interesting interlocutors come from well-rounded people.
Step 2
Collect stories. The world is full of amazing events, facts, jokes, with which, on occasion, you can always dilute the conversation. Make it a rule to remember or write down one story, anecdote, or interesting news a day and do not be afraid to insert this information into the conversation. This will help you build a reputation for being open-minded and interesting.
Step 3
Listen. Oftentimes, listening to your opponent is just as important as having the conversation yourself. Even if the interlocutor says something that is not very interesting, try to pay due attention to his words. Nod from time to time, ask clarifying questions - this will show the interlocutor that you are interested in what he is talking about.
Step 4
Speak correctly. A well-delivered speech and beautifully formulated sentences are an essential aspect of a truly engaging conversation. If you notice that you are tongue-tied or have difficulty placing stress, do not be too lazy to practice in front of the mirror to gain self-confidence.
