Unrequited love is beautiful only in romantic fairy tales. In real life, she is quite painful and unpleasant. But is it possible to make the feelings become mutual, and the beloved is at your feet? How to make a man want you to madness? Let's reveal a few secrets.
1. You should always look well-groomed
To attract a man's attention, you need to look neat and attractive. Don't try to hide the flaws in your appearance. Just turn them into your virtues. For example, accentuate small breasts with clothing that has a V-neck or a thin sweater worn in a hurry. Also, don't forget to tidy up your hair, nails, and makeup. It is also highly recommended to use "tasty" perfume, but in moderation. You should smell good, not smell like perfume, remember this. All this will make you look very attractive in the eyes of your chosen one.
2. Be moderately inaccessible
Girls who run after men they like and call them 100 times a day will never be able to take their rightful place in the hearts of their chosen ones. But this does not mean that you need to go to the other extreme and become absolute touchy. Representatives of the stronger sex do not like such women either. It is better to choose the golden mean: only occasionally, and not every day, write him the first SMS, reply to his messages only after 4-8 hours, do not forget for his whims about your interests and goals. Be confident so that the man is attracted to you like a magnet.
3. Remember to smile
A sincere smile is the main decoration of any person. But in order to seduce a man with her, you need to act subtly. If you've watched Memoirs of a Geisha, remember how these stunning women smile: every time before answering any question of their interlocutor, as a token of gratitude. And the mysterious smile of Mono Lisa, not Marilyn Monroe. By the way, if you start, following the example of the same geisha, to play "shooters" with a man with their eyes, the effect will be amazing.
4. Focus on the man
Men love it when women listen carefully and understand. They also appreciate the ability to maintain a conversation at the right time. But don't interrupt them during a conversation. If you don't like the topic you have started, just quietly turn the conversation around. Try to compliment as often as possible, but without too much philosophizing. Simple words like “Well done”, “You are very smart”, “You did the right thing”, inserted between the phrases uttered by the interlocutor, will be quite enough. Remember one more thing: your intimate conversations with your chosen one should "happen" as often as possible. A man has to get used to them. Even if he does not become your life companion, he may remain a good friend.
5. Try to provoke jealousy
When a man realizes that you somehow distinguish him from others, and he has significance in your eyes, it's time to make him jealous by switching his attention to the other person. But this must be done very carefully so that he does not even realize that you are doing this on purpose. Otherwise, his self-esteem may skyrocket, and your attractiveness in his eyes will drop to zero. If you do everything right, your chosen one will start thinking about the following: "Why did she turn her attention to another, she seemed to like me …". Since men have a particularly strong sense of possessiveness, he will begin to persistently seek your attention. And this is exactly what you need. The method, of course, is not the cleanest, but it is effective.
6. Make the man think about you
You can act in any way: do not reply to SMS; ignore; make it clear that you like a man and so on. You can also use the "drawing closer - distance" method: first flirt, and then disappear for a week, or at least start acting cold. That is, to pretend that right now you have no time for it. This, too, will make the person constantly think about you. However, do not forget about the rule of the golden mean. You need to act carefully, and not so that the man, offended, sends you mentally to hell.
7. Do an erotic massage
You should not be satisfied with what has already been achieved, even if your relationship has moved to a new level. Give your man an erotic massage using essential oils or sweet perfume. Touch his body with light and exciting movements of your fingers, without harsh pressing. All this will allow him to relax. At this point, you can make your partner think how good it is with you by making light touches with the tip of your tongue. The man will be completely in your power!
8. Relax completely in bed
Speaking about how to make a man want you to madness, one cannot fail to mention the "games" in bed. Do not lie on a "log" under any circumstances. Try to guess the desires of your chosen one, not even with a half-word, but with a half-gesture, and fulfill any of his whims. No bans! Later, after the wedding, you will be able to talk about headaches and unwillingness to do anything. And now everything is allowed that is not prohibited! The main thing is that you both feel good. If you can become an amazing lover for your man, he will never even look at another.
What if the advice didn't work?
If you have not been able to win the desired man, do not be discouraged. It is possible that he is simply not your destiny. This means that somewhere very close there is a person who is not indifferent to you. The one that anyone will love you: lame, oblique, crazy and crazy. You just haven't seen it yet.
