If your wife has stopped loving you, do not despair, it is better to try to change the situation. It is important to understand the reason for her cooling down to you and start from scratch.
First of all, you must understand that it is impossible in difficult situations to solve problems with the help of scandals and clarification of relationships in a raised voice. With this approach to conflict resolution, you should not expect that your other half will be able to hear and understand you. Shouting, of course, you can throw out your resentment and discontent on your spouse. However, this will likely alienate the woman even more from you.
Of course, you need to talk about what does not suit your spouse in family relationships, in your behavior. But do not humiliate yourself, do not ask her to stay with you if her decision is final, because a woman should admire a man, love him, and not feel sorry for him. If she stays with you only because you cannot exist without her, then such a relationship will not bring joy, satisfaction either to you or to her.
Try to remember how your relationship began, what you were like, and what attracted the attention of your beloved. Most likely, you had a more fit, athletic figure. In this case, you need to urgently sign up for the gym and the pool, or at least start jogging in the morning. Surely, during your first meetings, you shone with wit, intelligence, were an interesting conversationalist, went to theaters, movies and dances, and did not lie all evenings with a newspaper on the couch. Think of how you can please, pleasantly surprise your spouse: invite her to a restaurant for a romantic dinner or buy a ticket to a concert of your favorite musical group with her. Spend the evening in a carefree, relaxed atmosphere, as before, do not discuss household problems, and even more so do not make claims to each other that evening.
Change your wardrobe: an unkempt, tastelessly dressed man does not arouse sexual interest in the other half. And you need to look brilliant, impeccable, so that a woman can see you from the other side, so that she will again have an interest in you.
Spend more time together, take an interest in her affairs, hobbies.
Show care and attention to your wife, be patient. She must understand that such a kind, sensitive man, an interesting person and a sexual partner, she is unlikely to be able to meet anywhere else.
