Many young girls who are inexperienced in relationships with the opposite sex do not know what to talk about on a date with a boyfriend. One of the best ways to start, support, and develop a conversation is to actively ask.
Instructions
Step 1
On the first date, try to find out more about the guy's personality. Ask what music he listens to, what movies he watches, what games he plays. Ask about how he spends his free time. Show interest in this, ask in more detail about his hobbies. Ask about his job, profession, education. This topic can be expanded by asking clarifying questions. Just do not ask about things that you are not really interested in. For example, about fishing. This will put you in a funny and awkward situation.
Step 2
Don't ask the guy tricky questions. For example, concerning possible marriage and leadership in relationships, about his previous girls. Asking about parents and family relationships on the first date is premature. This is a hint that he will introduce you to your father and mother. And for this it is necessary for the relationship to be formed, so that the guy becomes ready for this important step. And you can ask about brothers and sisters already on the second date. Until a trusting relationship is formed between you, do not ask anything about sex, about money, about family secrets.
Step 3
Try to come up with interesting questions. Ask about animals and attitudes towards them, about fashion and style, about aliens, about belief in magic. Ask what he will do in an unusual situation. For example, if you find yourself on a desert island. Questions about how a guy understands the concept of "love", "marriage", about his plans for the future, ask carefully. And some time after your acquaintance. Also, don't ask prematurely about your relationship. The guy should be given time to figure out if he loves you or not.
Step 4
Try not to ask the mundane, daily questions that are often heard in the conversation of many: “How are you? How are things at work? Like parents?". They are annoying. Don't ask questions that can be answered in one word or one phrase. Ask in such a way that the guy's answer starts an interesting conversation. Do not ask rhetorical questions that, in advance, the guy will not want to answer. Don't ask the same questions every time you call each other. For example: "Where are you?" After a while, they will also make the guy nervous.
