You finally met an interesting guy who asked you out on a date. How to make it so that it will be remembered for a long time and become the beginning of a new whirlwind romance.
How to choose a topic for conversation on a first date
There are many topics for conversation on a first date, it is easy to choose them, especially for someone who knows how and loves to communicate. And what about shy and insecure people?
On the first date, you don't have to try to switch his attention to yourself all the time. Let's say you have achieved a lot by your incomplete 25 years. There is something to envy, but why talk about it all the time to an unfamiliar person, putting him at a disadvantage? By boasting, you are building a wall that will be difficult to overcome later. Don't make the person you are talking to feel disadvantaged in front of you. This causes internal rejection.
During a conversation, do not pretend to be an expert, even if you are very well versed in the topic of the conversation. Try to be as neutral as possible.
Gossip is also not necessary. It is also not worth shining with your sarcasm and irony. Men prefer kind women.
On your first date, try to relax and not pretend to be. Be natural, the way nature created you.
The right questions on a first date
There is a list of questions that will help you get to know your interlocutor better, reveal his identity.
What do you value most in people? This will help to reveal his essence, his perception of life, attitude towards others.
Do you like to travel? How do you feel about outdoor activities and adventures? The travel question will also show his character and lifestyle. The answer to this question will help you understand who is in front of you: a traveler or a homebody. This question will help you understand whether it is worth continuing the relationship with this person, because in the future you will have to accept his lifestyle, perhaps even adjust to him.
What are your favorite foods? If you ask about his culinary preferences, you can also make a rough portrait of the person. A penchant for novelty and a desire to experiment says a lot about a man's character.
What is your most cherished dream in life? The question of a dream can also tell about a person, reveal his emotional state and attitude to life.
What was your childhood like? What do you remember the most? A person's personality is formed in childhood. The events of that time, grievances and quarrels, relationships with parents leave a big imprint on a person's future life, and often even determine his fate.
What is your personality? What makes you different from other people? Men love to show off and show themselves in front of the woman they like from the most advantageous side, especially when they have something to tell.
The listener's talent in a woman is simply irreplaceable. This is a real golden key to a long-term trusting relationship with a man. When you talk to your boyfriend, show interest. Don't interrupt and let him talk. If he will be frank with you on the first date, then there is a high probability that he saw in you something more than just a pretty girl whom he invited to chat.
