Acquaintance with a guy is a quivering and disturbing occupation. Many girls ask themselves questions: what to talk about with a young man, what can you ask him so as not to look vulgar or, on the contrary, boring? How to communicate correctly? Let's figure it out.
How to meet a guy you like
If you like a young man, do not be afraid to approach him first. It was at the time of our grandmothers that it was accepted that a man should meet first. Things are different now. In fact, what could such a terrible thing happen if you take the first step? The guy will not pay any attention to you and your attempts to get acquainted and just leave? This is not the end of the world, is it?
When meeting, do not be afraid to seem trivial. If Cupid's arrow overtook in the store, ask the young man you like for advice on the product you need. And if on the street, ask him where there is a library nearby, any store or the desired house. Take the initiative to continue dating the guy. Don't miss your happiness!
What not to ask when meeting
If you do not know what questions to ask a guy when you meet, do not be discouraged. The most important thing when talking with him is not to touch on the topics of money, intimacy and the personal life of a young man. The most severe taboos are the following questions:
- What poses from the Kamasutra do you like?
- How many girls did you have, what was the last one, why did you break up?
- When did you have the "first time" and with whom?
- How much are you willing to spend on your girlfriend / vacation / entertainment?
- Have you ever used the services of prostitutes, and went to a brothel?
- How much do you earn and / or spend per month?
- Do you have a car / iPhone / your own apartment?
- Are you ready for intimacy on your first date? How do you feel about role-playing games?
- What nickname did you have as a child?
These are all good questions. But it will be possible to ask them only after a while. And then, if you start dating.
What questions can you ask a guy when meeting
You can talk to a guy on a first date on different topics. You can ask what kind of rest he prefers (active or passive), what the young man is fond of, whether he goes somewhere to rest. Some of the best questions to ask when meeting people include the following:
- Do you have pets?
- What kind of movies do you like?
- What kind of music do you prefer to listen to?
- What cuisine do you prefer - meat or vegetarian, do you eat sweets?
- Do you have a brother or sister?
Answers to these questions will allow you to get to know the interlocutor better, to understand whether he is right for you. It is quite possible that some of them will "force" the guy to show pictures on his mobile phone, and this is already a very good reason for rapprochement. It is possible that a new date will await you tomorrow.
Things to Consider
For a date to be successful, you should not only know what questions you can ask a guy when you meet, but also ask them correctly. So, try not to cross your arms or legs, look at the interlocutor more often, smile at him, praise with or without him. Scientists have proven that such phrases uttered by a woman as "What a fine fellow you are!" Also, strive to:
- Answer almost all of the guy's questions. If any of them are unpleasant, just change the subject. And think for yourself whether it is worth continuing to communicate with such a person.
- Call the young man by name and ask for his opinion.
- Listen more than talk.
- Avoid the emergence of conflict situations.
Please note: showing rudeness towards service personnel, swearing at the government and any citizens of the country (including your harmful neighbor), inviting a guy for a cup of coffee on the first day of meeting is the worst thing that you can do. If you already have sex immediately upon meeting, it is unlikely that the guy will appear the next day. You will most likely never see him again. Don't forget this!
