In recent years, more and more people use dating sites to build relationships or find a life partner. Before the first personal meeting, the interlocutors usually correspond for some time to get to know each other better.
Instructions
Step 1
Some members of dating sites try not to leave any information about themselves in their profile. And it is in the process of messaging that you can find out how interesting a person is to you in order to avoid disappointment on the first date and not waste time. Therefore, it is important to understand what questions should be asked when dating on the Internet.
Step 2
Ask how old the person you are talking to is. Perhaps your age difference is too great, and there is no point in continuing to communicate. However, a woman should not ask such questions, especially at the very beginning of communication.
Step 3
Ask your new friend's marital status. Of course, this is personal information, but people come to dating sites in search of relationships, so the question of family will be quite appropriate.
Step 4
Learn about education and work. This will help you understand how close your social status is. In addition, you may be colleagues or it may turn out that you graduated from the same university. This will bring you a little closer and provide additional topics for communication. Ask why your friend chose this particular profession, whether he likes it, whether he loves his job and team. You will understand whether a person is satisfied with his job or his profession - a source of constant stress, or maybe he is a workaholic who always disappears in the office. The issue of salary is not worth raising. Of course, the well-being of a person matters, but you can find out about the financial situation later during personal meetings.
Step 5
Ask the other person about his hobbies. It's great if your interests are similar, but don't be upset if, for example, you like to read books, but your friend does not. People with different hobbies live well together. But you should learn about hobbies that require a lot of time and money. Or your friend may turn out to be a fan of extreme sports. Imagine that you are married and have three children. Are you ready to admit the long absence of your husband, do you agree to allocate funds from the general budget for his hobbies and constantly worry about his health?
Step 6
If you have been texting for several days, and you enjoy the communication, you can ask more personal questions. Ask what your interlocutor has disadvantages and whether he has bad habits. The chance that a person will change is small. Therefore, think about whether you are ready to live your whole life, for example, with a smoking man. You will also be able to assess how self-critical your interlocutor is.
Step 7
It is better to postpone questions about plans for the future until a personal meeting. It is possible that they will change with the appearance of you in the life of your friend.
