With every year of married life, you realize more and more clearly that your husband turned out to be not at all a prince on a white horse. A similar situation develops in almost every family. Most often this happens due to everyday problems, different characters, dissatisfaction in sexual life. Building a happy life together is not easy. Therefore, every woman eventually asks the question - how to improve relations with her husband.
Instructions
Step 1
Look at yourself from the outside. In the past, you have always been an attractive girl that a lot of guys have been staring at. What has become of you now? You are too lazy to put on makeup, you can easily go out of the house in a tracksuit, an unpretentious ponytail has become from your beloved's hairstyles. What kind of man would like to look at this picture day after day? Get up early in the morning and tidy yourself up first. A man who respects and is proud of his wife will not notice unwashed floors, unsalted soup, and will not look at other women.
Step 2
Don't give up on intimacy. Take the initiative yourself. Have an evening of passion. Wear nice underwear. Try different types of sex.
Step 3
Sit in a relaxed atmosphere, take a piece of paper and a pen and write down what suits you in your husband and what doesn't. So you will understand from what moment your idyll began to turn into a nightmare. Surely, a speaker with good qualities will significantly outweigh the opposite. After all, when your relationship was just beginning, there were automatically reasonable explanations for all the shortcomings of a loved one. And now you need to at least take the place of your partner and try to understand why he is doing this and not otherwise.
Step 4
There are a number of questions you should be honest with yourself. For example, do you have common goals with your loved one, are you ready to change to improve your relationship. And the main question is whether you can do without him, the person you love so much.
Step 5
If you are unable to structure everything yourself, seek help. This could be a psychologist or your best friend. Nowadays, the help of psychologists has become more in demand than ever. And this is not always a fashionable trend, but often a real help in building relationships.
