Family relations sometimes reach a boiling point - everything collapses, the husband leaves. Time passes, and you realize that your breakup was a mistake. If you have not done anything fatal, then your husband will return to you. The most important thing in such a situation is not to get excited and think about everything soberly.
Instructions
Step 1
After parting, as a rule, the search for the culprit begins. Let's not hide our sin, but in such situations women present themselves as innocent sheep and blame men for all problems. Finding the culprit will not solve the problem, but will only exacerbate it. Being alone with yourself, mentally answer the main question: why do you want to return this person? If you still do not see any point in this, then you should put a fat point in the relationship before the situation turns into complete absurdity.
Step 2
The main and most effective way is constructive dialogue. Women are subject to emotions, and men are more rational in their judgments. Try not to throw tantrums, but use arguments. Having found the right words, in a calm atmosphere try to convey them to the man and together try to find the right solution. Make concessions to each other. Compromise is an essential attribute of any relationship.
Step 3
Take care of yourself. Remember how you were when you first met. Active, cheerful, sweet, beautiful, carefree. Get yourself back. Make more time for yourself: gym, swimming pool, spa, solarium, beautician. Love and respect yourself.
Step 4
It's great that you have good friends who are ready to come to your aid at any moment. However, do not forget that you live your life, and each situation is individual, so you should not listen to every advice of your friends. Take note of them, but do not use their ready-made scripts - you have your own life.
Step 5
Even after a breakup, don't try to make your partner jealous. Most likely, feelings for you are still alive in him, and he will regard this fact as a betrayal.
Step 6
Don't try to chase him. Each person should have a personal space. Don't be annoying or annoying. Respect both yourself and him. Give him time to think, leave him alone, but do not drag out. Call him from time to time, remind about yourself, take an interest in his life, health, so that he sees that he is not indifferent to you.
