When a man leaves for another, this is a blow to female pride. But it is doubly offensive if he returns to his ex, leaving the feeling that you could not become better than her. However, even in such a situation, one can rehabilitate himself. With the right tactics, you have a good chance of getting your man back.
Instructions
Step 1
Analyze why the husband left for his ex. The reasons may lie both in the man's previous relationship, and in the current one - with you. The first group includes such as the love that he still has for his ex; feelings of guilt towards her; desire to live with your children, if any. The second group includes a lack of understanding in your family, a lack of love, dissatisfaction, and your behavior does not correspond to his expectations.
Step 2
If you find it difficult to determine the cause yourself, try to find an opportunity to meet with a man and have a heart-to-heart talk. Ask him to explain what he did. However, in this case, do not humiliate yourself and do not beg him to come back.
Step 3
Try not to interrupt your communication with your man, while keeping your dignity. Let him know that you respect his right to make decisions about his own personal life. Emphasize that you are a self-sufficient person who has pride, but no "stone in his bosom." Invite him to stay friends.
Step 4
If communication with a man is interrupted, and you do not have the opportunity to demonstrate such a line of behavior, just take a little time out. Do not seek meetings with him, but do not shy away from them when a man has such a desire. And the desire will certainly appear, because he will be intrigued: why don't you run after him and try to return him.
Step 5
Use the time you have to work on yourself. Try to fix anything that your husband hasn't been very complimentary about. And just take care of your appearance, trying to become an order of magnitude more spectacular. Surround yourself with new fans and friends. Try to find and cultivate sources of joy and positive emotions.
Step 6
If you know that your husband has dreamed of something for a long time, try to realize this dream alone. For example, he wanted to buy a Peugeot car, but did not have enough money. Do everything to buy such a car. If he is thinking about starting his own business, you can master this field of activity. Make your life attractive to him.
Step 7
Never reproach or reproach a man - gone and gone. When someone calls or meets you, show good humor and friendliness. Say that everything is fine with you. If he tries to find out to the smallest detail, admit that yes, you need to fix the closet door and change the light bulb on the staircase, but all this is not critical. If he offers his help, do not refuse, but accept and thank.
Step 8
If you notice that a man is trying to appear at your house to help, or for another reason, be careful not to frighten him off with his behavior. Radiate beauty and sexuality, but in a way that doesn't look like an attempt to seduce him. Make it clear that you are like this every day, and he happened to be here.
Step 9
If you feel attracted to you, allow yourself a light flirtation. However, it is important not to take the first step in anything.
Step 10
Finally, there will come a time when a man wants to be intimate with you or hints that he wants to return. You, in turn, remind him that he lives with another woman, so now no relationship between you is possible. Say that you are going to arrange your personal life, and to be one of the two means not to fit into this plan. Male logic will make him agree with this. Now you just have to wait for him to decide to break up with his ex.
