How to ask the girl's hand so that this day will be remembered by both of you as one of the happiest and brightest moments given by life? There are many ways to offer marriage, but you only need one of them, your own, one and only. It all depends on your ingenuity, determination, confidence, ability to hear the voice of your own and her heart.
Instructions
Step 1
Think and weigh everything carefully: for the first time they get married only once in their life. Are you sure you have found the one you want to be with for many years, in joy and sadness, in good and bad times? Does she love you? Are you ready to support your family, do you want to have children? If you answered yes three times, move on.
Step 2
Ask and find out how your father proposed to your mother. This can be interesting and even the best option.
Step 3
Think of your favorite books and movies: maybe there is an episode of declaration of love that you want to repeat in real life? For example, you will look extraordinarily romantic, falling on your knee in front of a lady in a musketeer's costume, or very courageous in a Dundee costume, nicknamed "Crocodile". A strict classic version of a gentleman in a tuxedo is also a win-win.
Step 4
Try to delicately and casually ask your beloved or her friend what kind of declaration of love your girlfriend is dreaming of. It may very well be that this is a romantic option - girls are still big dreamers.
Step 5
The Hollywood version of the diamond ring has become almost mandatory when proposing a hand and heart. There is such an opportunity - present it to your future bride. No - give something else, only beautiful, original and the size of her finger. But in any case, do not buy into dangerous advice such as throwing a box with a ring while walking together in the rain into a puddle, they say, let them pick it up and be amazed. He will be amazed, but not at the proposal, but at your tactlessness and stupidity.
Step 6
Another of the now widespread advice on "unusual" proposals of the hand and heart of a narrowed one: to do it while flying in a balloon or simultaneously jumping with a parachute. Maybe it will work if you are both athletic and not doing it for the first time. But will the young lady be up to your explanation if she is parachute jumping for the first time?
Step 7
Think also well before organizing a declaration of love with a group of friends holding posters that say, "Will you marry him"? What if she refuses?
Step 8
Do you offer your beloved your hand and heart and ask her hand? So take her hand lovingly in yours, kiss and press it to your heart. You will feel her warmth and tenderness. Look her straight in the eyes and say the most important thing: “I love you. Will you marry me? May everything work out for you, happiness, love and harmony in your future marriage!
