Mama's son is a terrible sentence. It is him, this infantile man who always and in everything obeys his mother, women are afraid of like fire. But mama's sons do not wear insignia, so in some cases a woman learns about the unpleasant features of her partner's character only after the wedding. Do not discount the fact that love is evil and women are naive.
Instructions
Step 1
Be prepared that your mother-in-law will try to ruin your life. Do not underestimate its strength: a huge number of marriages fall apart precisely because of the intervention of parents. The worst mistake you can make is agreeing to live with your mother-in-law. Be firm and persistent and persuade your husband to move. Even if you have to rent an apartment and the rent will force you to tighten your belt, make up your mind anyway. Choose: either a waste of nerves or a waste of money.
Step 2
Change the order of the family. Mom's sons are often attached to family traditions. They think that, for example, baking pies on Sundays, going to the zoo on the first Saturday in July and celebrating the New Year at home and only at home is the norm. Establish your own family traditions that will be associated with you, and not with your mother-in-law.
Step 3
No matter how angry you are with your mother-in-law, treat her with due respect. Do not forget that you can demand the same attitude towards yourself. The husband should know that you respect his mother, but nothing more. Do not allow yourself to criticize and even more insult your mother-in-law - this will only alienate your husband. Better tell your friends over a cup of coffee everything that you think about this woman. Let off steam in a woman's company: it is not necessary for a husband to know about your attitude towards his mother.
Step 4
Do not try to re-educate your husband - you still will not succeed. You'd better come to terms with his character and accept him as he really is. Try to become the closest person to him, get some general secrets that his mother should not know. Help him in everything, encourage his success, emphasize his positive features. This will further bond the man to you.
Step 5
If you understand that living with your mama's son has become completely unbearable - file for divorce. Fighting for your love is great, but not always worth it. A husband and his mother are capable of twisting your life and inflicting so much pain on you that your heart will bleed for years. If you understand that you cannot win, give up.
