Parents are the closest people who will love and help in any difficult life situation. It happens that we cannot get rid of resentment against our mother or father throughout our life. However, by doing so we only harm ourselves.
Parents are the closest people. They sincerely love us and will support us in a difficult life situation. However, the relationship with them is not always straightforward. The grievances from childhood are the most difficult. We carry them through our whole life. It takes a long time to understand the parents and to forgive them. This must be done first of all for ourselves, since resentment and anger corrode the soul, leading to depression and illness.
Put yourself in the shoes of your parents
Think about what you would do in a given situation in the place of your father or mother. Perhaps, imagining yourself in their place, you will be able to realize that there was no negative background in their behavior. They just wished the best for their child and feared for his future.
Communication
Communication has always been and will be the key to getting out of any critical situation. You should not stop taking the position of the offended and stop communicating. This does not solve the problems in the relationship with the parents.
Working with a psychologist
Resentment clouds the mind, and therefore it is difficult to soberly assess the current situation in the relationship. In this case, it is good to get advice from an experienced psychotherapist who will help you adjust the line of behavior in relations with parents.
Problems in our relationship with our father or mother point us to an inner problem that needs to be addressed.
