At some point, a person begins to understand that he has already matured, and his parents treat him like a three-year-old child. Excessive care and attention can not only be annoying, but can cause conflicts and misunderstandings. It is better to start re-educating parents as soon as the first signs of their "replay" appear. Most often they can be seen when the child is 14-15 years old.
Instructions
Step 1
Determine for yourself exactly what you want from your parents. What should they be for you to feel comfortable? Most of the problems with parents are based on the fact that they do not see you as an adult, you will always remain a child for them, whether you are 20 or 50 years old. Imagine the ideal model of family relationships, but consider the fact that it must be realistic, otherwise, you will not succeed.
Step 2
Analyze your behavior. Perhaps it is you who give the older generation a reason to think that you will not be able to independently decide what is good for you and what is not so good for you. Put yourself in the shoes of your parents. Think about what they dislike about your behavior. It is likely that if you eliminate the annoying moments, you will have more freedom.
Step 3
Move from thought to action. As strange as it may seem, do not resist their instructions. Do everything as they say. If they do not let you go somewhere, next time come home on time; call back when they ask; do not forget to follow their instructions. When your parents see that you are able to adequately fulfill their requests, they will treat you like an adult, and after a while the question of going anywhere will not even arise. They will be sure that nothing will happen to you.
Step 4
Don't be afraid to talk to your parents. Participate in their conversations, express your opinion, consult with them. Gradually demonstrate to them that you understand what it is about, that you cannot just give up and say that "these are adult problems."
Step 5
Argument all your actions. Try to explain to your parents why you are doing this and not otherwise. Ask them to stand in their place, ask what they would do if they were in your situation. Remind them of their youth, ask if they behaved as they demand of you.
Step 6
Do not blackmail your parents or do anything "evil" to them. This will only provoke conflicts and nothing good will come of it. Thus, you will demonstrate that you are not ready to behave adequately and that you still need parental care.
