If you realize that your little one is becoming uncontrollable, urgent action is needed. Re-education of your spoiled child will take a long time, but this process is necessary for the full development of the baby.
Instructions
Step 1
The introduction of a clear daily routine. You will have to spend a lot of time and effort to teach your child to get up and go to bed at the same time. But as a result of a disciplined baby, it will be much easier to accustom him to other important actions, for example, brushing his teeth and making a bed. But keep in mind that the child will comply with the daily regimen only if you yourself adhere to it.
Step 2
Give the child some responsibility. Keep it as simple as watering the flowers, feeding the cat, or taking out the trash. But it is these simple actions that will teach the kid to respect and value your work, to be responsible for the assigned task.
Step 3
Take control of your baby's nutrition. The health and ability to work of any person depends on his nutrition. Limit the amount of sweets to a reasonable level, and only allow them to be eaten after a full lunch or dinner.
Step 4
Establish a new rule in the family - watch TV no more than 2 hours a day. Unlimited TV watching and endless computer games lead to serious problems with the children's nervous system. Make an agreement with your child that you can only spend 30 minutes to 1 hour at the computer if you get a good grade at school or do some household chores.
Step 5
Encourage your child to choose their own sport. Allow him to release his energy, which is so abundant in children, to improve his body and improve his health. The sport your child chooses can be anything - they all add up to great benefits. Physical activity will help develop positive character traits - perseverance, willpower, patience.
Step 6
Provide communication with peers. If your baby has already made 1-2 friends or girlfriends, invite these children to your place. While your child is interacting with them, do household chores. It will be great if friends come to visit your son or daughter who have something to learn from.
Step 7
Praise your child more often. Children are very partial to praise, you should not ignore their slightest achievements. Explain to your child that you are very proud of him if he does the right thing, helps around the house, and studies successfully. But let him know that if he fails, he will also be dear to you.
Step 8
Teach your child to be patient. Often spoiled children are characterized by a lack of patience, they need everything at once. If he asks you to do something, for example, read to him - take advantage of this, do not rush to him at the first call, develop patience with him. Explain what you will honor to him when you are free. Having withstood a little time, fulfill his request - thereby you will educate the child's attitude towards you as a person, and not as a means of meeting his needs.
Step 9
Talk to your child more often. Your communication with your baby should not be limited to ten minutes of notation. Use any free time for conversations, talk about your childhood, important events in it, about other people and their actions, talk about animals, plants, birds, insects. Try to bring up an optimist in your child, show him beauty in all forms, teach him to observe nature. Frank conversations and your personal example will be an important factor for your child in developing positive character traits.
