The appearance of a child in a family is a great responsibility and increased attentiveness to everything around. Every baby needs proper upbringing and careful care. How the child will behave in the future, as he grows, depends on upbringing.
Instructions
Step 1
Many parents complain that their children, aged one year or older, stop obeying them. What could be the matter? There are, in fact, many reasons. One of the most common is the phrase "We allow the child everything." Some parents quite often spoil their children almost from the first days of life. This is a big mistake. By allowing their children whatever they want, parents often do not realize that they are creating problems for themselves. And the older the child, the more his requests become. And when parents begin to realize what they have done, it becomes late. The child rolls up a scandal if they begin to refuse him something. It also happens that, bringing the child to tears, parents hear in their address all kinds of threats and curses from their child. Then the parents grab their heads and ask a very logical question in this situation: "What to do?"
Step 2
If a child is capricious after hearing a refusal, do not scold him and it is strictly forbidden to give him something that caused him to throw a tantrum. It is necessary to calmly, confidently, firmly tell the baby that they will talk to him only after he calms down. If such a situation arises at home, then you can leave the child alone in the room, but not for long. Children, despite their small age and capriciousness, are still able to control the situation and quickly realize that in such a situation they will definitely not win.
Step 3
When re-educating a spoiled child, parents face all sorts of difficulties. It is very difficult to work with children who are used to achieving everything with the help of tantrums. You need to understand that it will take a lot of time and effort to re-educate such a child. Therefore, if parents really want to save themselves and the child from torment, then they will have to arm themselves with patience and iron willpower, so that, if something happens, they do not give up the slack and again not be led by the naughty baby. When a child gets used to the fact that he gets everything at once, this affects his attitude to the world around him, namely, a passive attitude develops. Growing up, such children most often become selfish, they are not at all worried about the desires of friends, acquaintances, relatives. To prevent this, you need to educate your child correctly and from childhood to assign him the rules of good behavior.
