Meeting the parents of a future husband is an exciting and important event. It's not always easy to please the groom's mom. But efforts should be made to improve relations with the future mother-in-law. After all, this is not only the mother of the beloved man, but also the grandmother of your future children.
The relationship of the future wife with friends and even more so with the relatives of the chosen one can seriously affect the future family life. It is especially important to build a good relationship with the future mother-in-law. And you need to lay the foundation for further friendship from acquaintance, because there will be no second chance to make a first impression.
If the groom announced in advance about the upcoming acquaintance with the parents, think over your appearance. Avoid clothes that are too revealing and bright, but you should not try to dress too modestly either. We must try to look cute and attractive, but not vulgar. Also, keep your makeup in moderation.
Usually, the first acquaintance with the mother-in-law takes place in the house of the groom's parents. Bring something to the table. A candy, cake, or fruit basket would be appropriate. It's great if you bring homemade sweets to your tea. Ask the groom in advance if his relatives have food allergies. Offer your help in the kitchen. For example, collect dishes from the table after a feast, pour and bring tea.
At the table, praise a couple of dishes prepared by the future mother-in-law, ask for a recipe if the opportunity arises. This will delight your fiancé's mom and show that you value her experience and respect her advice.
During the conversation, make it clear that you are listening to the groom's opinion. Surely there were situations when your future husband gave you good advice. Tell us about it. The mother-in-law should feel your reverent attitude towards her son and see that your love is sincere.
