How hard it is sometimes to get along with a child who stubbornly insists on his own. During the next tantrum of your three-year-old child, your cup of patience overflows to the brim. Wise parents advise in such cases to remain calm and firm.
Instructions
Step 1
Respect your baby. Your child is not only an unintelligent creature that requires constant care. It is also an independent full-fledged personality with its own desires and aspirations.
Do not treat the child's requests as irrelevant. If the baby's request does not give you much trouble, follow it. For example, do not neglect the request of a toddler to watch a frog swim and talk about the peculiarities of its behavior. Your child will be grateful to you, and his horizons will expand significantly.
Step 2
If satisfying the request threatens the baby's health or violates the rules of behavior in society, then be strict and consistent. Explain to your child why you forbid him to do something. The child's request should not be granted under any pretext, be it "for a short time", "a little bit" or "once and that's it." And the next time a similar situation arises, the prohibition must remain in effect.
Step 3
Try not to use swear words, a raised voice, or assault when communicating with your child. The latter is justified only in extreme cases, when the crumb crosses the line of what is permissible, and other means no longer help. A slap on a soft spot is possible only without malice and strictly for educational purposes.
Step 4
Love your child and, no matter what happens, be on his side. One of your parenting responsibilities is to protect your child under all circumstances. After all, he has no other protection yet.