The problem of divorce is currently more relevant than ever. Families are destroyed, even those with children. Of course, they get the most, because they still don’t understand why mom and dad don’t want to live together anymore. For them, both parents are ideal people, because they do not always see the reasons why they break up.
It is necessary
- Patience
- Love
- Self-control
- Ability to understand
Instructions
Step 1
Try to unobtrusively reconcile them. Perhaps there is no serious reason for divorce, and they just talked too much to each other and cannot get out of it. Talk to them, tell them how you love them and want to live together.
Step 2
Don't take sides. Because you can make the wrong choice. And you can't make a choice in favor of one parent, because they both care about you. Even if someone is to blame alone and it is he who leaves the family - do not push away. Whatever the relationship between the parents, they will always be your mom and dad.
Step 3
Remember that life is not over, especially since you still have everything ahead of you. Soon you will grow up and will be able to avoid the mistakes that they made by the example of your parents. Therefore, learn the necessary lessons, they will definitely come in handy.
Step 4
Do not withdraw into yourself. Communicate with your friends, just like before the disaster. In difficult times, you cannot be alone with grief or a problem. Don't talk to your peers about your experiences, just act like you did before.
Step 5
Talk to a loved one and an adult. If you need to speak out, then try to entrust your pain to an adult loved one. Perhaps you have an understanding grandparents.
