When a couple of people who were once dear to each other break up, regardless of whether this marriage was registered with the registry office or not, there is inevitably an initiator of the breakup. After all, a human habit is a rather insidious thing, therefore, married couples, even when it seems that love has died and there is a relationship on the side, do not always formalize an official divorce. But there are situations when one of the spouses becomes a supporter of separation, and, according to statistics, in most divorces it is the man who is the initiator.
The great Tolstoy also said that all happy families are equally happy, and all unhappy ones are unhappy in their own way, and in most cases divorce becomes inevitable in the absence of mutual understanding and coldness in the relationship that awaits at home. At different periods of their age, men put forward different reasons for divorce. So, in youth, sooner or later a moment may come when it seems that it is hard to live for the sake of your own family and you want to live for yourself - take a walk, meet friends, go all night in a fashionable dance club or go camping. But most men, like women, today create their own families rather late, when this reason loses its "popularity." at first glance and tries to keep his son under his vigilant control, then divorce is quite likely. After all, the mother-in-law opposes herself, the "clever and beautiful", who knows exactly what her beloved boy, the hated daughter-in-law needs. And, if it is difficult for a son to avoid maternal comments, then sooner or later he may get tired of this squabble to death, and then even having children does not become an obstacle to divorce. But the mother of an over-aged blockhead, who finds it easier to hide under her wing than to build his own family, forgets that in the overwhelming majority of cases the beloved "child" will return to her and how they will coexist now is a very difficult question. Men after forty decide to divorce, wanting to find a younger life partner, hoping to find a second youth next to her. But such a decision often fraught with the danger that a young girl will try to use a man who has reached a certain position in order to achieve her own interests. Apart from the listed reasons, there is another one - the inability of the spouse to give birth to a common child. Although many men, who for various reasons did not wait for the birth of their own child, happily raise their wife's children from a previous marriage, investing their whole soul in them, considering them truly family and taking with all their hearts the words that the father is not the same, who gave birth, and the one who raised. But for some men, the fact that a child is flesh of his flesh is important, therefore, after thinking, they leave their spouse for the one who will give birth to his own baby. And at any age, even after 60 years, a man can decide to divorce from - because of the quarrelsome nature of the wife. But here, as in the well-known Ukrainian proverb - you saw your eyes that you chose, so eat.
