When two people, who only recently gave the impression of a happy married couple, get divorced, all those close to them are tormented by the question: "Why?" It would seem that there is no such global reason, only little things, but it is from them that all the problems of married couples are formed.
The first most banal reason for divorce is life, which, as they say, is stuck. Basically, people who were in a hurry, got married in the heat of love, without getting to know their partner well enough, cannot get along with each other. Young and infantile husband and wife, left alone in the house, cannot adapt to the habits of their spouse and begin to make offensive claims. There are also opposite situations - the couple lived together for many years, her life is fine-tuned to the smallest detail, everyone knows and regularly performs their duties. But for some reason, none of the spouses wants to go home after work! Boredom and the exact knowledge of what will happen in a few minutes, hours, days, months, years kill people's feelings for each other. There should always be intrigue, in married life we should not forget about the cute surprises that people love to do during courtship. Problems in the intimate sphere are also frequent, and they do not depend on the age of your marriage. A partner's inability to meet a loved one can separate the strongest couple. So that you do not have such reasons for parting, learn to listen and hear your spouse. Always, before expressing any claim or reproach, think about whether you would like to hear it in this form from the lips of a loved one. You can always read the literature on disorders in the sexual life of spouses, get the information you need from there and solve problems. The material side of married life is very conflicting. The unstable situation on the labor market and constant cataclysms in the country can bring a person to stress. It is important to support each other in such moments, and not to finish off with mutual reproaches and scandals. Do not be ashamed to ask for help from relatives and friends, if you divorce, you still have to do it. It is better not to risk your marriage and to mobilize all efforts to solve the material problems of your family than to add to them the tragedy of separation. Alcoholism of one of the spouses can be a very serious reason for divorce. This is a really real problem that needs to be addressed without delay. Ask friends and acquaintances if they know an effective remedy or clinic where your partner will certainly be helped. By unnecessarily embarrassing and hushing up this disease, you will not solve anything, you will only waste time. Very rarely, a person can cope with such a misfortune alone, he needs the help of the whole family. All problems that often lead to a divorce of a married couple can be solved with a head on his shoulders and love in his heart.
