Usually a man makes an offer, and women only agree or reject him. But when the cherished question does not come for a long time, then the girls have to either continue to wait or take active steps. You can't marry a man against his will, but you can make him want to.
How to marry a man
Show your best sides. Try to look great when you see each other. Impeccable makeup, hairstyle and matching clothing. Prepare delicious and varied meals when you have it, and keep your home clean and cozy. Do not take off your irritation on him, communicate more, show a sincere interest in conversations. Find common topics and hobbies, and spend time together more often.
Add some jealousy. Men relax after a long relationship, especially if you already live together. He may think that you are already almost married and his woman is not going anywhere. Show him that other men are interested in you, but don't overdo it. Let him feel that he has a rival, but be confident in your loyalty.
Straight Talk. If your relationship has been going on for more than one year, you can start talking about the wedding. I would like to marry someday, how does this holiday represent and why he is delaying with this decision. Do not press on him, the conversation should be conducted in a calm tone so that he expresses his thoughts.
Put him in front of a choice. This method can be used only when you are desperate to wait for an offer from him and other methods do not help. Say that you are tired of living in an uncertain state. Emphasize that you love him and want to be with him, but that you cannot continue to remain at this level of the relationship. You either get married or separate. It's risky, but if a man really loves and appreciates you, he won't let you go. And if not, then you shouldn't waste time on it.
What methods cannot be used
Pretend and play someone else's role. Some girls make a common mistake - they turn into the ideal of their man. For example, they lose weight up to 45 kilograms, dye and extend their hair, through force they are interested in his hobbies and try to be "as he wants." But even if this tactic works, you won't be able to pretend all your life. And when you relax after the wedding, he will see you as real and understand everything. The marriage will be destroyed because of your lies, and in this game everyone will lose.
Sometimes pregnancy is used to keep a man. To do this, girls stop drinking contraceptives, pierce condoms and go to other low deeds to get pregnant. But not always, after such a trick, a man agrees to marriage, and women fall into their own trap - they become single mothers. And even if they agree, such a family rarely becomes happy.
