Raising children is one of the most important issues for any mother. The child does not obey and is naughty. It would seem that here he is, just crawling and auking small and cute, but time flies, and already a three-year-old miracle rolls tantrums, is ready to bang his head on the floor and cry heart-rendingly until he vomits and his voice breaks down. This situation is probably familiar to many mothers. What to do? Let's figure out which tactics will be the most correct and what actually happens to the children?
Instructions
Step 1
Children at a certain period of time understand that they are not one with their mother. They begin to learn about the world and look for themselves, that is, to assert themselves in it. Often they do this at the expense of the closest people, their mothers. This is why they are more relaxed with other family members or in kindergarten.
Step 2
It must be remembered that the child needs understanding, affection and protection. Keeping calm and distracting will be the best option.
Step 3
Change the scene or captivate with the game, making it a joke. Make a pretend growl, it helps very well. But in no case should you give what is required, otherwise every whim will turn into hysteria, becoming a method of manipulation.
Step 4
Children understand everything very well from a very young age. They are aware of what is allowed and what is not. It also happens that the misunderstanding between the mother and the child grows, then the baby can withdraw into himself. Raising an obedient child requires patience, ingenuity, positivity and creativity.
Step 5
For children, their whole life is one big game that adults must play according to their rules. I want, I don't want, I will, I won't - all these whims are just a test of your strength. You cannot give in to temptation, but also put a strict ban too. Let them fulfill the terms of the deal. For example, you get one candy if you finish your soup or go for a walk while washing the dishes. Such options are most favorable and develop a sense of responsibility. Let the baby feel like an adult, and you will be the most free. Remember - family happiness is in your hands!
