Surprisingly, adults and their growing children live in different dimensions! And the point here is not that 15-year-old boys and girls are very frivolous and irresponsible, as parents often say, and therefore adults have a desire to “keep in check” and control their children. Each parent plays a predetermined, "approved" role, not being able to move away from the script, it is not clear who and for what invented it.
Instructions
Step 1
Let your parents know you need their advice and help. This will help establish a supportive environment in the home. There is no need to turn away from them. Be closer, more honest and try to please, at least a little bit, but every day.
Step 2
If your parents treat you like a small child, politely remind them that you have grown up and would like to work with them to solve problems related to your life. Tell us about your experiences, plans, they will understand that you are growing up and becoming reasonable.
Step 3
Express to your parents the understanding they get at work and at home. Please them with your successes. This will help establish contact and build rapport. You will be able to talk, understand, and if necessary, forgive each other. Parents need to be appreciated!
Step 4
Try to speak to your parents in normal language - this is better than yelling and slamming doors. No need to be daring, be calm and balanced. You need to accept your parents as they are. Also, there is no need to teach loved ones "how to live." Accepting and respecting the views, habits, tastes of our parents, we accept and respect ourselves. Only in this case can we count on mutual understanding.
