Sooner or later, disagreements arise in every family. If you do not learn how to properly interact with each other, these disagreements can turn into serious problems that threaten the breakdown of the family. To prevent this from happening, you need to try to meet each other halfway. And the main role in this event is assigned to the woman, who has long been the keeper of the hearth.
Instructions
Step 1
Most of the problems that arise in the family begin to develop on mutual disrespect within the couple. At the same time, the most sensitive to disrespect are men who want to be the head of their family. Not receiving the required respect from his wife, the man begins to be mischievous and do everything in spite of. A woman, of course, reacts to such behavior with resentment and reproaches, and family problems are growing by leaps and bounds. Meanwhile, a woman needs to be more flexible - her whole psyche is arranged in such a way that it is much easier for her to adapt to circumstances than for a man. Therefore, if it seems to you that your husband offends you, do not take offense, but try to find out the reason for his act: why did you offend him so much, why does he take revenge on you? Pick a time when both of you are in a balanced state and talk about this topic. After you find the reason for your husband's behavior, calmly explain that he offends you with his behavior. When your husband sees that you are trying to calmly settle the conflict, he will gladly meet you halfway.
Step 2
Consult with your husband on any trifle, this will spill a sea of balm on his pride and affirm in the thought that nothing in your family can be solved without him. Perhaps you don't want to pamper him like that at all. And why ask what dress you should buy if it’s not his business at all? But think about this: when a husband is confident in his position in the family, when his authority is unshakable, he does not need to fight for a place in the sun with his wife. Feeling like a strong man, he will want to pamper you, a weak woman. Therefore, all these seemingly useless actions will ultimately benefit you.
Step 3
Praise your husband often in the eye and in the eye. This simple step will benefit your family in two ways. First, the husband will strive to match your opinion of him, so it makes sense to praise him not only for who he is, but also for how you want him to be. Secondly, you yourself will learn to see his dignity and imbued with the idea of what a wonderful husband you got. And after that, most of your family problems will go away, since the discontent on which they are usually based will disappear from the relationship.
