Problems that arise with adolescents are often caused by the same reasons. Moreover, depending on the reasons, it is worth solving the problem itself. What are these common reasons, and what should be done to address them that are true for both parents and children?
Instructions
Step 1
The most common cause of problems with a teenager is his dissatisfaction with himself. This dissatisfaction can manifest itself in isolation or, on the contrary, in aggressiveness. If this dissatisfaction is caused by the appearance, it is worth thinking together about ways to solve the problem (buying new clothes, changing your image, going to the gym). Sometimes adolescents misjudge themselves, believing that they are ugly, stupid, and the like. Often the parents themselves are to blame. What to do? It's just that you talk to your teen more often about how wonderful he is and how you love him.
Step 2
Leadership-inclined adolescents very often get involved in criminal groups on the streets, begin to get involved in alcohol. If you notice that your child is becoming really addicted to all of this, you should seriously worry and take action. The police, a psychologist, you yourself, of course, can help a teenager, but the best option here is to move, and with a complete change in the circle of friends, place of work and environment of the teenager.
Step 3
Most often, problems with misunderstanding in the family are provoked not by adolescents themselves, but by their parents, who behave like children. Mutual grievances, unwillingness to communicate, caustic remarks and reproaches are not the best weapons of parents for a teenage child. Adults should understand that the child has not stopped loving them, but is simply changing his life, looking for himself, and showing maximum understanding and support.
