In order for the husband to find himself, choose his favorite occupation and succeed in it, the wife must believe in him. And your faith in your beloved spouse should be demonstrated by the absence of nagging, understanding and all kinds of moral support.
A man needs a woman all the time, because it is she who is able to support him and give him self-confidence. But women are far from always able to realize their importance in the life of husbands. They only know what to complain to friends about spouses, without even trying to somehow help her husband find his place in life. But after all, the well-being of the family depends on whether a man has found himself in life.
How to become a support for your husband
A real man does not need material support, but he always needs a reliable moral support in the person of his wife. In order to give one to a lover, it is worth understanding the main thing: the husband cannot be sawed. It is the constant nagging and scandals out of the blue that undermine men's confidence in the family, which is noticeably reflected in his mood, desire to do something for the family and even in appearance.
Try to praise him, even over trifles. But without pretense. Praise for the neatly assembled children's room shelf, or for the Internet setup on your home computer. Let this be a trifle for you, but he will feel like the master of the situation, because he was able to do something, albeit simple, for the family.
And be sure to rejoice at his success. The fact that his project became the second in the competition is not a loss, but getting into the top three winners. Your task is to convince your husband of this. After all, for a man, any place is the last, except for the first, of course. However, a woman can change men's views on victory, the main thing is to do it gently, like a woman.
Influence, but gently
A wise woman knows how to turn a situation in such a way that a man will always consider himself the master of the situation. If he cannot find a job to his liking, then help him with this. But you shouldn't choose a job that suits your taste. Think about what your spouse has clear inclinations and cravings for. And push to this vacancy. Hint that he could be successful in this industry of your choice. Describe development prospects, career options.
Remember, he will find himself only on his own, albeit with your submission. Therefore, if he categorically refuses to get a job offered by you, do not put pressure on him. And if he still managed to get a job, but the salary is not so high or the schedule is inconvenient, but it suits him, rejoice and you. This means that the start of a successful dizzying career has been given. When a man is satisfied with the conditions, he performs feats and rushes to the top.
