In family life, there are times when a husband's attraction to his wife weakens - temporarily or permanently. But before you complain about male impermanence, you should evaluate your words and deeds. Maybe it is women who do everything in order to alienate a loved one from themselves?
After getting married, many women relax and stop looking after their appearance. They completely forget one of the main commandments of a woman living with her beloved man: to be desired. How does one manage to deprive a husband of the desire to devote his free time to his own wife?
Often, after marriage, women allow their husbands to see much more than they need to. Any man will be cooled by sloppiness in a relationship. No matter how close the relationship between spouses, one cannot cross the line beyond which there are purely personal, intimate things. And no matter how liberated a woman is, she must remember: what is hidden, and not what “creeps into the eyes” is concerned.
It is easy for a man to lose his sexual interest in a woman who parades around the apartment in untidy clothes, with curlers, with her face smeared with a "healing" but terrifying mask. All these procedures are best done not "before our eyes."
Home clothes should be comfortable and clean, with a pleasant smell, and aesthetics should not be neglected. Most men can be annoyed by excessive "nudity". Nudity, which becomes habitual, ceases to excite and attract. It is better to leave "seductive" outfits for the bedroom, where they are more appropriate than, for example, in the kitchen.
Smells are important for a man. A man can be repelled by a suffocating kitchen smell that soaks into clothes, skin and hair. We must not forget about intimate hygiene. An unpleasant smell in "delicate" situations can deprive a man of his love interest easily and for a long time.
A woman should smell good. This does not mean that you need to pour perfume bottles on yourself and abuse deodorants. Perhaps your husband has a scent preference? Use them as an advantage. A “note” of a scent beloved by a husband can concentrate his attention and awaken vivid emotions.
As for cosmetics, in a measured family life, catchy cosmetics can add a touch of alienation. Many husbands love it when a woman at home does without makeup at all. A man perceives a washed, clean woman's face as something of his own, personal, dear. Cosmetics, according to the feelings of most men, is intended for the outside world, for everyone else. And of course, you shouldn't go to bed with your husband without washing off your “war paint”.
Many married couples lose the sense of the healthy distance inherent in normal gender relationships. Remember that, for example, a man should not see intimate hygiene procedures. And an open toilet door when you are there will not add romance or charm to a relationship.
You should not turn communication into endless clarifications of the nuances of your own appearance. "I haven't put on much weight?", "I don't look old?", "Does this dress suit me?", "How do you like my new lipstick?" All these and similar questions can electrify the home atmosphere with negative.
A man will easily forgive you a lot, he will not notice your extra pounds or a couple of wrinkles. But if you pester him with questions of this kind, then you can not only bring him to white heat, but also provoke a not quite friendly picky look. Then all your mistakes will turn against you, and can cause a persistent decrease in male interest in your person.
