Rogue is not a nickname or an insult, but a way of life and thinking. Women who prefer more successful men are often called mercantile bastards who do not know how to love. But is it really so? What is it like to be married to a rogue and what will you have to face?
There are tons of articles on who the rogue are and how to recognize them. All this gives rise to a lot of controversy about female commercialism. And few people think about what it is like to be the wife of a rogue and what turns out to be financial insolvency, infantilism, laziness and irresponsibility of a man for his family.
Decree is not a time for rest
All financial problems are exacerbated precisely during parental leave. The allowance is much inferior even to the official salary, and therefore the entire burden falls on the man. But what if he is far from being a breadwinner?
A woman needs to urgently go to work. What to do with the child? It is good if there are non-working parents or other relatives who are ready to sit with the baby. And insanely lucky if they gave a kindergarten. Many wait for their turn up to three years, and in some cities even longer. Naturally, a private kindergarten is too expensive for a rogue, as is a babysitter.
In the first year, due to stress, children often get sick. Who goes on sick leave? And even more so the employer is not happy with them. The woman will have to be torn between the child and work, trying to stay on both fronts.
Some rogue wives are so desperate that they go freelance. These are often low-paying jobs. As a side job for a couple of hours a day, this is not a bad option, but in order to make good money, you need to spend a lot of time at the computer. With a baby in your arms, it is very difficult, especially when there are two children, for example, twins or the weather.
Walking is good for your health
Not every rogue has a car. Need to get to the other end of the city? There is a metro and a minibus. Is it hard with a baby in your arms? Not sugar, you won't melt.
But you can't run into a kindergarten, especially at rush hour and a crush. And you can't take a stroller with you. Unfortunately, not everyone is given a place near the house. And not everyone has the money to pay for it, i.e. make a charitable gift to the kindergarten.
What can we say about heavy bags of groceries that still need to be carried home? Nothing, a little free fitness doesn't hurt. Look, this is how the country lives!
Vacation at the cottage
Provided that this dacha is. Or the parents have it. And then there is fishing, hunting and barbecue in nature. Isn't it outdoor recreation? And the tan is just as good.
There is nothing to dream about a vacation outside your hometown, because there is no money for the sea. Why is this vacation needed? To then sit without money? No, let them pay compensation, and keep working. And you can go to the dacha on weekends.
Eternal discontent
All rogues have a distinguishing characteristic: they are always dissatisfied. Everyone is to blame for their problems except themselves. The state is not like that, a greedy employer is a thief, there is no normal job, small salaries, the boss is a fool at all. If there is not enough money, it means that the wife is wasting, mismanaging the budget, pocketing it, or even earning little at all.
Hearing constant criticism, complaints, whining about the injustice of the world is quite difficult and tiring. Over time, the wife can become like that.
No gifts
Even on holidays. Although it is possible to make an exception and buy flowers, it is a waste of money: they are expensive, they do not last long. Or something inexpensive and necessary, for example, eau de toilette in a supermarket or tights. The main thing is not to the detriment of the family budget.
Gifts are given only to mistresses and other women with low social responsibility. He married a decent girl. But in essence he simply has no money and has no desire to earn it. But there are loans that will then have to be repaid from the same family budget. Did your wife want a gift? So let him pay!
Mercantile spirit?
On the Internet, the opinion that a woman should give birth for herself is gaining more and more popularity. And the man doesn't owe her anything! However, like a child. Therefore, the expectant mother herself must take care of providing for the child and herself during childbirth and after.
An intelligent woman should be mercantile to some extent. And we are not talking about using men solely for profit. Raising a child in modern realities is an expensive pleasure. And there is nothing wrong with paying attention to the financial capabilities of the future husband and father, his desire to earn money, provide protection and comfort to his family, and not jump out to marry the first person he meets. It is important to understand that a rogue is not someone who earns little at the moment, but a way of life, thinking and beliefs.
