If you are used to the fact that men do not bypass you and do not refuse anything, the sudden indifference of the guy you like will be very unpleasant. Do not think that you are somehow unpleasant to him. A man can avoid communication for many reasons, and you most likely have a chance to win his attention.
Instructions
Step 1
Compare your social status with that of a man in society. Perhaps you are very successful or you are getting a higher salary. It is hard for men to realize that women can be leaders. Rather, the representatives of the stronger sex want to see in the chosen one the keeper of the hearth. And if you are a big business woman, show your willingness to be a good wife and mother.
Step 2
Invite the man and your mutual friends home. Do not emphasize that you are striving to communicate with this particular person. At home, feeling like the mistress of the situation, demonstrate yourself from the other side, be such as he has never seen you before. Don't insist on talking, don't pay too much attention, this will only alienate the man.
Step 3
Find common ground with the man. Find out as much as possible about his hobbies and develop in this direction. For example, an avid numismatist can easily be interested in a rare coin or deep knowledge in this area.
Step 4
Try to find out as much as possible about the man's past relationships. Maybe you look like one of his ex-girlfriends. This information is very useful as you can avoid many communication mistakes.
Step 5
Try to talk frankly with a man and find out the reasons for this attitude towards you. You don't need to be accusatory, after all, he doesn't owe you anything. Explain that you do not understand this position and would like to change your communication style. Perhaps a calm conversation will allow the man to relax and talk to you frankly.
Step 6
Find out if the man has a girlfriend or a wife. Then his attitude towards you may well be due to sympathy, which interferes with a real relationship. The man is just trying to stay faithful. Here you have to decide for yourself whether you want to continue to seek attention and destroy his pair, or if you should leave the guy alone.
