The upbringing of a child is highly dependent on the relationship of his parents and the atmosphere in the family as a whole. Communication between parents can have a very big impact than lengthy preaching of children.
The family atmosphere is determined, first of all, by the communication of family members, that is, a certain manner of conversation, attitude towards each other, "warm" or "cold", the desire to share everything with relatives, and maybe vice versa, to hide something. Therefore, it is precisely from the nature of the family and the situation in it that it becomes clear how the children will grow up and how they will behave in the future, since the child looks first of all at the parents and takes an example from them. Of course, there are problems in the family caused by difficulties of various kinds, and this affects the development of the child. You need to be able to isolate your children from problems in order to avoid childhood stress and not traumatize the child's psyche.
In addition to the atmosphere in the family, children are influenced by all kinds of techniques and methods of education. Each parent participates to a different extent in the child's life, some more, some less. The child should have an authority with positive qualities, which he considers the best in everything, looking at him, the child will imitate him and want to become the same. This method of upbringing will affect children very well. In a child's life, there should be punishments, including psychological ones, so that he understands that he cannot always rely on his loved ones and can cope with difficulties on his own, but such frequent punishments can affect the child negatively, since he may feel humiliated and unnecessary.
Thus, the most important thing in the family education of children is love and understanding. Thanks to the combination of positive and negative in a child's life, he will develop correctly and know when to stop. Such upbringing is used in many families, as it is universal and more correct in relation to children.
