It often happens in many families that a man and a woman change roles. And it looks like this: the wife becomes a "horse" and constantly "plows" for the family in order to earn money, and the husband simply loses interest in work. Why does this happen, why does the husband not want to work?
Instructions
Step 1
See if your husband is having a midlife crisis. It can happen even at the age of 20. As a rule, this crisis appears due to the fact that a person first tries to do something in his life, change or achieve something. As a last resort, he tries to use any opportunities or create certain prerequisites for his own development, as well as the extraction of material profit. However, one day he begins to understand that everything that your husband has tried, various attempts to grow, nothing just helps. And life goes on somehow monotonously, without any special changes and monetary gain. At the same time, if a wife is still nearby, for whom everything is going well, everything is working out, she has achieved career growth, then this hits the man on his male pride. In this case, you just need to support your spouse, and not "nag" him.
Step 2
Think, maybe your husband does not want to work, because you yourself have deprived him of any desire to do anything. If you have already got into the habit of doing everything for the man herself, then you urgently need to get rid of her. Otherwise, you will not receive any initiative from your betrothed. At the same time, when only these prerequisites begin to appear (prerequisites for your leadership of the family), your husband will try to resist. And then he just gets tired of it, and he will play along with you.
Step 3
Analyze why your husband doesn't want to work. Maybe because you earn enough to support the whole family. In this case, you need to decide how to do better for the full happiness of your family. You can simply shift all women's responsibilities onto your husband and, most likely, he will quickly get tired of it, and he will very quickly find a job. Or you can threaten him with divorce, but this is the most extreme method.
