Almost all married women who have lovers sooner or later face the question: how to end this relationship on the side? How to leave without unnecessary hassle, noise, scandals and risk to yourself? The best course of action depends on many circumstances: how long the romance lasted, what is the character of the lover and his temperament, whether the man and woman began to bore each other, etc. There are no general, standard solutions here.
Instructions
Step 1
The simplest case is when the feelings have mutually cooled down, and the lovers themselves understand that "it is time and honor to know." As a rule, a small phrase is quite enough here: “Thank you, I will keep the best memories, but sooner or later everything ends”. And the parting takes place calmly, in a civilized manner, without mutual claims or threats.
Step 2
If a woman is very angry with her lover, for example, he offended her with something, and wants to end their relationship on his own initiative, the best option would be to simply disappear. That is, briefly inform him (best of all, by phone): "We can no longer meet, do not ask any questions, forget me!" and terminate all contacts. And sometimes not say anything at all. But this method can be resorted to only if the woman is firmly convinced: the lover will take it relatively calmly, and will not try to take revenge.
Step 3
A very difficult case is when the lover is extremely proud, with a pronounced "possessive" instinct. If, at the same time, he is still inclined to hysterically-demonstrative actions, then parting with him is akin to a feat. He, out of pure principle, will try to either restrain a woman, or inflict as much harm on her as possible for "insulting". How is it - he was abandoned! A feeling of wounded selfish pride can push such a man to the most unworthy, even criminal, acts. Therefore, the best way out here is to push him towards the thought of breaking up. So that the initiative must belong to him. And how to do it - female intuition will tell.
Step 4
Well, in conclusion, it is still difficult to refrain from advice: before you start a lover, you should think carefully. Because the price for the pleasure you get can be prohibitive.
