The first sex for a girl is a joyful and exciting event. And if she has already trusted you, it means that she has strong feelings for you. Try to meet her expectations.
Most girls are very sensitive to the choice of a partner for the first sex. Therefore, if she chose you, this already speaks of a high degree of trust. As a rule, young girls do not discuss intimate issues with their parents, but get all the information from the Internet. Because of this, your passion may be in complete confusion in the head.
The first sexual experience is a highly individualized phenomenon. It goes differently for everyone. It depends on the anatomical features of the girl, the degree of her excitement and mood. Often the first intercourse is painful, so many girls experience anxious feelings. Girls also rarely get pleasure from the first sex. But it is in your power to do everything to make this process comfortable and enjoyable.
To get pleasure, a girl needs not so much physical as emotional sensations. Therefore, the creation of the proper environment plays a very important role.
First of all, you need to take care of the place. If you don't have your own home, find a cozy, clean apartment or rent a hotel room. Take the time to create a pleasant environment - light candles, turn on music, prepare a bottle of wine. Take your time to move to bed. Chat a little, you can give each other a relaxing massage. Perhaps your girlfriend will understand that she does not want sex at the moment. Take this with understanding and transfer everything to the next time.
If the girl is ready to continue the evening, take action carefully. Pay special attention to foreplay. Be gentle and patient. If the girl feels pain, release your pressure a little and start over. The best position for first sex is the classic missionary one; for convenience, you can put a pillow under the girl's buttocks. You can also use the "spoon" pose with both partners lying on their sides. But leave the poses "rider" or "doggy-style" for another time - in them the girl's muscles will be unnecessarily tense.
The best way to protect yourself for first sex is with a condom.
If you see that she is very nervous, try to distract her with conversation or compliments. Be gentle and considerate. Excessive passion, aggressiveness, speed and harshness are useless here. Yes, women love it, but the first time, this behavior is inappropriate. Prepare to work long enough. Perhaps it will not be limited to one time. Girls want everything to be perfect, so at the first failure they are ready to give up their intention. Please understand this. Or try to persuade the girl to try at least one more time.
Most importantly, don't forget about safety. The girl sees in you the person who she trusts the most precious thing. Don't deceive her. Your direct task is to take care of suitable contraception.
A girl's mood after first sex can be unpredictable. Someone closes in for a short time, someone feels joy, and someone - great fatigue. Whatever her behavior, ensure her comfort after sex - take her to the bathroom, make clean bedding, make coffee.
