Men have different upbringing. Some have been taught from childhood that women need to be treated with respect, while others, unfortunately, are alien to respect for girls.
Why do men start to insult and humiliate women?
Is it okay to insult a woman? This question has an unconditional negative answer. But, unfortunately, in many situations something else happens. So, for example, in some families, over time, everything becomes not as ideal as it used to be. The disclosure of characters in the process of living together causes some conflicts, scandals, and in especially acute cases, personal insults and fights. If at some point your husband lost his temper and insulted you, you need to try to forgive him and try to forget about this situation. But what if such incidents continue day after day? Should I forgive everything or put a fat point in the relationship?
Try to evaluate your relationship with your spouse and look at it from the perspective of a stranger. Perhaps, with his insults, he is trying to re-educate his wife with a too quiet and calm character. Maybe his actions are a fit of anger, and he does not like the fact that his wife cannot defend her opinion.
But such a harsh method of re-education clearly indicates that a man treats his wife without respect and, perhaps, does not love her.
Often such situations occur under the influence of alcohol, or when the husband is too hot-tempered. If the reason is the first, at the initial stage, the husband can still be saved, and his addiction to alcohol can be prevented in the future. But if alcoholism has become a way of life for your chosen one, you better "run" away from him. Such a person is unlikely to improve, and the problems in such a family will only increase over time.
If a man insults you in fits of rage, try not to aggravate the situation and calmly figure it out, let him “cool down”.
What are the consequences
Constant insults have a strong effect on the nervous system. The woman becomes weak, defenseless and fearful. Constant stress will lead to an inferiority complex. Not all women are able to stand up for themselves in such situations and give a decent response to insults, or even leave, slamming the door.
Try to stop all sorts of bullying and insults in your direction. In a calm atmosphere, discuss this problem with your husband, tell him about your experiences and concerns. If all is not hopeless, chances are your relationship will improve.
But if your husband cannot be re-educated, and he continues to show his aggressiveness towards you, you better just leave him. It is unlikely that his attitude towards you will improve. You yourself build your own destiny, and it is unlikely that there are such negative aspects in your plans for the future.
