Love is not always an eternal and mutual feeling. The agony of love brings us a spiritual experience that nothing can replace. And every person who wants to experience true love must be prepared for heartache. Melancholy, heartfelt confusion and confusion of feelings - all this is experienced by a person in love. But there are ways you can soften the blows of unrequited feelings, forget your loved one and enjoy life again.
Instructions
Step 1
First, think, did you really love this person? Perhaps it was just self-deception, think it over again and see what place this person occupies in your life. Sometimes it only seems to us that we love, but in fact, we just really want to love and be loved. Think about it.
Step 2
First, change your phone number or delete the number of the person you used to love. So that, out of old habit, you don't have to type it again. Ask your friends not to be reminded of him in your presence, even if he often communicates with them.
Step 3
After that, delete anything that reminds you of this person. Do not regret anything, throw away all the gifts and photographs in which you were once together. You will see, it will immediately become easier for you.
Step 4
Don't get hung up on this person. Get distracted or do something interesting for which you simply did not have enough time and energy before. Walk more and communicate with people interesting to you.
Step 5
Dedicate yourself to your loved ones. Help parents, sisters and brothers. Give them some of your time and care. After all, these are the closest and dearest people to you on the whole earth.
Step 6
Do not forget to exclude from your life everything that makes you sad. Replace love movies with youth comedies, listen only to funny music and read interesting books.
Step 7
Remember that there are no irreplaceable people, and a new meeting will be the best remedy for loneliness. Therefore, in no case sit at home, attend various events and meet new people. Pay your attention to those around you, perhaps your true love is among them.
Step 8
Think about your life and learn from it. It is important that you understand that we make ourselves happy or unhappy. And our happiness is only in our hands.
Step 9
And yet, try to forget your former love. Forgive all old grudges, wish happiness and let her go forever. And open your heart yourself to a new love.
