Feelings tend to dull over time. And even the greatest love will end one day, if you do not try to revive fading feelings. A few simple tips will help you regain your former love.
Instructions
Step 1
Talk to each other often. Alienation between two people begins when they stop sharing with their soul mate all the most important things that happen in their life. At the same time, you need to remember that when your spouse tells something about himself, then first of all he expects support and approval from you, and not condemnation. Remember that criticism kills love.
Step 2
Be together as often as possible. The time spent together, filled with joy and pleasure from spending time together, has a positive effect on your relationship. Make small discoveries - let it be a new play, film, concert, which you can only watch together, without children, relatives and friends.
Step 3
Talk to your spouse more often about how much you love and appreciate her. Many people are not used to saying such things, thinking that the second already knows about it. But these words are very important for both men and women. Remember what pleasant feelings you get when these words are said to you, and often give them to your partner.
Step 4
Make each other happy with gifts. We are not talking about standard gifts for the holidays, but about small surprises on completely ordinary days to remind you of your love and cheer up someone else. Such actions keep the romance of your relationship for many years, and if you want to keep your feelings fresh after twenty years of living together, do not dismiss this advice. By the way, you need to accept such gifts with great love and gratitude, so that your spouse has an incentive to do them again and again.
