Anything can happen in family life, especially if the marriage lasts for many years. Nobody is safe from making mistakes. Only correcting these mistakes sometimes takes incredible work. Many men, by virtue of their temperament, cheat on their wives. But when the wife leaves, the husband tries to return her after the betrayal, although this can be difficult to do.
Instructions
Step 1
Reconsider your behavior if your wife leaves you. Think about why you cheated on her. Perhaps your relationship has lost its former trepidation and tenderness, so you began to look for new sensations on the side. Maybe it was worth trying to revive the relationship with your wife before rushing into the pool with your head?
Step 2
Seek a meeting with your spouse, even if she does not want to see you. This is a natural reaction of any woman. If your wife reacted in this way to your act, then she still loves you. Therefore, try to prove that you, too, have not cooled off. Be patient if she doesn't contact you. She needs time to understand what happened.
Step 3
Call her for a conversation. Do not cheat, do not deceive her. If cheating took place, then you both have to learn to live with it and accept it. Talk to her frankly, explain to your wife what guided you when you noticed another woman. Perhaps the spouse is partly to blame for what happened. Recognize each other's guilt, but in no case pass all the responsibility onto someone else.
Step 4
Prove your love to her. Give flowers, gifts, arrange surprises, give compliments. Try to create romantic situations and constantly prove to her that you care about her. If your wife constantly reproaches you for cheating and reminds you of this every now and then, agree with her that you are putting a taboo on this topic. Try to forget both about this unpleasant fact from your married life.
