After a quarrel or serious misconduct, it can be difficult to regain the trust of a loved one and communicate with him as before. But do not despair, start working on yourself and change for the better so that your significant other will show condescension.
Instructions
Step 1
Analyze your recent actions and try to understand why trust in you has lost: probably the reason lies in mistakes, incorrect behavior, etc. You do not need to ignore your misdeeds, especially if after them the girl is offended so much.
Step 2
Wait a bit until the girl's resentment diminishes. Ask her for forgiveness for what you did. Be sincere and try to convince her that such mistakes will not happen again. Remember to ask for forgiveness in a beautiful way, such as poetry or some other pleasant surprise. And don't forget to talk about how much you love your girlfriend and want to be with her.
Step 3
Try to stay positive despite the fight. Even if the girl is in no hurry to forgive you, behave as in ordinary life: smile, joke, please your beloved with unusual and romantic actions. Gradually, she can calm down and forget her resentment.
Step 4
Correct yourself and do not repeat past mistakes. As soon as you realize why the girl stopped trusting you, try not to step on the same rake again. Constantly say that you have corrected and demonstrate it with your actions: girls judge more by the actions of men than by their words.
Step 5
Talk to the girl. Try to convince her that you will always be only sincere with her, she can completely rely on you. Justify this by the fact that you love her very much and do not want to lose. At the same time, remember that, most likely, the girl also does not want to lose you, even despite the insult, so you just need to be patient and wait for the moment when she will trust you again.
Step 6
Remember to trust your girlfriend, even if she hasn't reciprocated yet. Become a role model for her. Gradually, her love for you will prevail over negative emotions, and you will be able to improve your personal life.
