Going to the registry office and officially registering a marriage does not end the creation of a family, but only begins. Living together is a daily creative work in which both parties take part. The feelings that cement the family are not the mutual passion of the spouses, but love, trust, care for each other. There are several ways to strengthen relationships and create a strong and friendly family that is not afraid of any obstacles.
Instructions
Step 1
Learn to accept each other for who you are and appreciate the qualities for which you fell in love with your partner. Never do you need to make attempts at re-education and declare your desire to eradicate the shortcomings that you see in your spouse. If something annoys you, try to talk and explain why it is happening. A person who loves and respects you will try to improve, just do not use aggression and blackmail for this.
Step 2
Learn to listen to each other and become a real support for your spouse. You should sincerely care about his problems and be interested in his affairs. Their joint discussion and decision-making makes you real accomplices in the best sense of the word. There should not be problems separate from the family, they are all yours in common.
Step 3
Family, your home should become the place where you always want to return, where you will always be listened to, sympathized with and given advice. It should become an island of stability, home warmth and comfort, where all everyday troubles and hardships are forgotten and recede.
Step 4
Do not try to strengthen the family with the birth of a child, if the relationship is cracked, this is unlikely to save your marriage. But for those who love each other, the birth of a child can become the factor that will unite the spouses even more, will become an additional reason for showing care and tenderness. Love for each other and your children, care for the general family well-being allows you to open a second wind in the relationship between husband and wife.
Step 5
With the birth of children, the family has its own traditions and family holidays, which determine the way of each particular family and become for each of its members an indispensable attribute of their home. This awareness makes both parents strong, confident and successful and their children happy.
