The family is a single organism, and in order to maintain harmony and happiness in it, it is necessary to constantly work on its development and strengthening. Like any organism, the family requires prevention - and then the relationship in it will be healthy, strong and durable.
Is it possible to live together for many years and never quarrel? We are all living people, besides, the rhythm of modern life is such that it is very difficult to avoid stress. It makes us nervous, and sometimes we break out on those closest to us. It is unlikely that you will find a person who has lived a long life and has never caught a cold. It is exactly the same in family life: if occasionally there is a conflict, the main thing is to find a constructive way out of it and "recover" as quickly as possible. And to strengthen the "immunity" of your family organism, so that quarrels occur as rarely as possible.
Here are 5 tips from couples who have lived together for many years.
1. Travel - together and separately
We all need rest, not only from work, but even from each other. The best rest, as you know, is a change of activity! When you relax together - these are your shared memories, what strengthens your bond emotionally, forms your own little world. You will remember your joint tourist trips for many years to come. But, if you spend a lot of time together, separate rest is also necessary. Don't drain your love - even she needs rest sometimes. Let yourself miss each other sometimes!
2. Make love regularly
Psychologists and psychotherapists insist that sex is the most important part of a relationship. If you do not have harmony in your intimate life, it is unlikely that your relationship will be perfect for many years of life together. Try to diversify your intimacy, keep the fire of passion in each other - this will help you maintain emotional closeness.
3. Forgive resentment
Resentment destroys us from the inside. In addition, we often accumulate resentment in our souls until one day this stream breaks out. Speak out all the moments - from global life plans to the smallest details. Do not stifle resentment in yourself and learn to forgive each other, because none of us is perfect.
4. Don't interfere with friendship
Marriage should not stop you and your spouse from living a full, fulfilling life. The home-work-home life cycle sometimes has to be interrupted by gatherings with friends. It's great if you have mutual friends, but even if the spouse wants to go fishing with friends, this is not a reason to throw up a scandal for him. This also applies to women: the beautiful half of humanity is no less in need of rest from the family routine!
5. Have common passions
You should be united not only by a common life, children and a stamp in your passport. Common hobbies, hobbies, joint trips - everything that makes up your life, rich and interesting, everything that you will remember in old age. It should be interesting for you together!
