Few have no enemies at all. Conflicts and quarrels occur, people are offended, move away and imperceptibly turn into enemies. But over time, someone may have a desire to mend relationships and turn the enemy into a good friend.
Instructions
Step 1
Forgive your enemy, forget all the bad things that happened between you before. Let go of negative memories and tune in to a supportive relationship. If you continue to dislike your enemy, he may feel it and reject your offer of friendship.
Step 2
Smile at your former enemy. Take away all arrogance, ridicule, old grudges. Nod when you meet, say hello and show your affection in other ways. Show him that your war is over and it's time for a truce.
Step 3
Overcome the invisible barrier. At first, it will be difficult to get into the acquaintance list of your recent enemy, especially if you have had a lot of conflicts. Make friends with his friends, find out a little information about him, find common ground - common interests, hobbies, outlook on life.
Step 4
Use mutual friends and acquaintances. Learn about the feelings your enemy has towards you. Let them say only good things about you, how you have changed, and how you could make friends. Go to parties or clubs where your former enemy goes.
Step 5
Start a conversation. Talk about common topics that strangers talk about. At first, the other person may be wary of you, expecting a sudden threat or cruel joke. Apologize for old grudges. Show that you have forgotten the past and decided to start all over again, offer your help. As the relationship becomes closer, talk to him about topics that interest him, show attention to his hobbies.
Step 6
Ask for help, but only when your relationship becomes friendly, and the offense on his part is forgotten. People feel sympathy for those they help. If you work on your project together, you will have the opportunity to talk, get to know each other better, and become good friends.
