In society, there is an ambiguous attitude towards female friendship. Someone believes that she is no different from a man's, and someone does not believe in her. Meanwhile, sometimes a friend can really turn into an enemy.
Female friendships are traditionally considered weaker than male friendships. Women are creatures subject to mood and emotion. Also, a woman usually pays more attention to home and family than social life - it is easier for her to break existing social ties. In addition, men look for support in friends, while a woman is more likely to turn to her parents or husband for help. All these prerequisites make women's friendship more fragile. But sometimes a friend can turn into a real enemy.
The most commonplace reason for such a "rebirth" is falling in love with the same man. If both of you have not yet told him about your feelings, and he treats both of you the same, then there is still a chance of maintaining a good relationship. But if a man pays attention to you, then even the best friend can become a sworn enemy. Here, the primary instincts of survival are at the fore. The number of women on the planet is greater than the number of men, so each strives to find a suitable partner as soon as possible. And when a man you like begins to look after another, any woman is capable of becoming enraged. Finding yourself in such a situation, your friend may experience double negative emotions: the object of her passion turned out to be in love with another, and her best friend “betrays” because of the man. Here you will have to choose which is more important - friendship or love relationships. Think about how a man in love suits you, and whether you can live without a close friend. But it may well happen that you choose a man, and then a friend will come with an apology. This is not surprising, because women are emotional beings.
When you have a fight with a friend, try to keep your cool. Perhaps you will reconcile, and sharp words will not be forgotten soon.
Disorder in relationships can also happen due to banal envy. The reason can be anything - a good job, a beautiful figure, and even a new dress. This situation often happens when women communicate from childhood. Until a certain moment, their lives are similar - children's games, school, institute … But then one of the women begins to work hard and achieves success, and the second fails. And, as is typical for all people, the less successful friend blames not herself for everything, but fate. She becomes resentful and embittered, and all this negativity is transferred to a successful friend. If this situation has happened in your life, try talking to your friend. Explain what your success was worth, how much you worked for it, offer your friend help in achieving goals. Consider if you yourself have been too arrogant or busy with work lately.
If friendships break down, it's hard to get over it. But it is better to have one reliable friend than many unreliable ones.
However, the opposite situations are not uncommon. If your friend has climbed the social ladder, she may start to look down on you. Such people often think that acquaintances from the "past" life are dishonoring them. Observe your friend: has she become less likely to communicate with you, is she avoiding you, is her behavior in society different from her behavior in private with you. It is possible that over a cup of coffee in the kitchen she will be as sweet and simple as before, and in a familiar company she will become cold and restrained. In such cases, you will have to reconcile - real friends will never be ashamed of each other. Delete your ex-girlfriend's number and forget about her.
