Women, in their desire to make their beloved man happy, sometimes commit rash acts that are difficult to correct. In order not to repent of what you have done, it is better to always remind yourself what you don’t need to do for the stronger sex in a relationship.
Sacrifice your career and your dreams
Love and sacrifice in women often go hand in hand. Having met their soul mate, they leave their past life, career, hobbies, friends, turning a man into the personal center of the universe. Perhaps at first your chosen one will be happy with this decision. But it is also very likely that sooner or later he will get tired of seeing a person next to him who does not develop in any way and is closed only on love relationships.
Consider, if you ever break up, you can only make claims for unrealized dreams and goals. Nothing can force an adult to give up his life, except for personal desire. At the same time, you need to be ready to feel the full measure of responsibility. Having severed such a relationship, a man will go on with almost no loss, and you will never return the years that could have been devoted to study, self-development, and your favorite hobby.
Remember that any extremes are dangerous. Therefore, try to leave at least a little time for yourself. This approach will give confidence, increase self-esteem, which your man will definitely notice.
Solve problems for him and regret
When a loved one has difficulties, you want to support him and feel sorry for him. True, women easily cross the line when simple sympathy turns into taking on male problems. As a result, they become eternal leaders in relationships and continue to carry everything on themselves, hopelessly spoiling their partner. Either the man leaves, since he has lost the main role in this union.
It is important to remember that a representative of the stronger sex will not be able to love a woman who feels sorry for him. Therefore, during a difficult period, support your man, but in no case do not take away his leadership positions. If he is sick, stay close, cheer up, just do not get discouraged and indulge the weaknesses of your half. If the problems concern finances, give advice and share information, and do not take on the material support of the man. He must understand that the main steps towards solving the problem will have to be done by himself. But, having overcome difficulties, your chosen one will feel even stronger, more confident, and the balance in the relationship will not be disturbed.
Buy expensive gifts
When a man presents expensive gifts to his beloved, this once again confirms his role as a breadwinner and leader in relationships. The girl's pride also does not suffer at all, since she is pleased to feel care and attention. But if you turn the situation around, nothing good will come of it.
Giving her partner more generous gifts than he can give in return, a woman puts him in a humiliating position. It is not easy for a man to come to terms with such a situation, and sometimes it is impossible. Therefore, the ideal option would be gifts of approximately equal value. Otherwise, there is a danger that your chosen one will like the dependent position, and he will begin to use his love for himself for selfish purposes.
Change your appearance
If you are happy with your appearance, never agree to change it to suit the wishes of a man. When he chose you and paid attention, everything was fine with him. He wanted to be with you, and not with some other, improved version. Therefore, it is at least strange to start talking about a new hair color or a larger breast size on his part.
Every person has the right to remain himself, and there will certainly be someone who will love him in this original form. For everyone else who is dissatisfied with the appearance of a partner, there is a huge choice among other men and women. Eventually, he can return to the bachelor market and continue his quest for his ideal. But to mold this ideal against someone else's will is wrong.
It's another matter to look good and take care of yourself. If over time, you began to be lazy, pay less attention to your appearance, the man's claims look quite reasonable. After all, he once fell in love with one woman, and as a result got a completely different one.
Small concessions in small things are quite acceptable. For example, to wear a dress more often at his request, or to grow long hair. Steps towards each other are the norm in relationships, it is important to stop at the moment when other people's desires can have irreversible consequences for health, as is the case with the same plastic surgery.
Lower your standards
Your habits and preferences are part of you. While everyone changes over time, remember that such changes must be for the better. If a man offers to take a few steps back for him, then such a rollback will not lead to anything good. For example, you are accustomed to having a rest on the sea twice a year, but he gets out to warmer regions once every five years.
Of course, everyone has temporary difficulties, or your standards with your partner are growing at different rates. The main thing is that a man strives for the best, develops and wants to be on the same level with you as soon as possible. Seeing this, you can wait and give in to something. It is much worse if he considers his standard of living to be acceptable, and does not mind staying at it for a long time. By lowering your standards, you will not be able to treat him with respect and be happy within his notions of well-being. Such a relationship is doomed to parting.
