You can close your eyes to many things, but there are 9 things that can never be forgiven. This is something after which disrespect and problems will grow like a snowball, making you more unhappy every day.
Correspondence with girls
If your boyfriend, or already your husband, flirts with girls on social networks, issue a warning. We cannot close our eyes to this, because virtual relationships often become real. Don't listen to excuses. Just say, either he stops all communication with other women in a similar way, or you break up. And be firm in your decision. Flirting online, even if it is thousands of kilometers from the virtual young lady, is treason. Call a spade a spade.
It's all your fault
If you notice that your companion often says the phrase "it's your fault" when he is pursued by failures and failures, think about it. First, adults know that they don't have to blame anyone for their troubles. And secondly, since you are a couple, then the accusations are generally inappropriate. Even if you are really to blame for something, he, as a man, should not shout to you about it. The adult man makes decisions on his own and is responsible for the consequences. And if you are constantly guilty of everything, and they are trying to drive you into a sense of guilt, break this relationship. You need a mature man who will be responsible for himself and his family.
Contempt
If he doesn't respect you, your friends, and your family, it won't end well. Don't let anyone humiliate you. It all starts harmlessly. At first, he will not want to go to congratulate your mother, because drinking beer on the bench is more interesting, then he will forbid you to meet with your friends, and then he will say that your place is at the stove, and there is nothing here.
You will never receive any support or help from such a man. He will use you solely to his advantage. And it will erase from your life everyone who will try to open your eyes to what is happening. Think well, do you really need a man who does not respect you or your loved ones at all?
Let's remember the past
If a man constantly remembers everything that came before him, think, do you really need it? He will only poke at you all your life together with your mistakes of youth, which you want to forget and not remember. This is the reason why you should never discuss your ex. So that there is no temptation to poke a finger at you and remind you how many there were "before".
Some men just kill self-esteem with constant reproaches. If you don't want to live in hell, end this toxic relationship now. The past should remain in the past; it should not be projected onto the present.
You also need to end the relationship if he constantly compares you to his ex. It doesn't matter if you are in the black or in the red.
Jealousy and total control
If he constantly controls you and is jealous, reads your correspondence with friends and overhears conversations, you can mistakenly decide what he loves and is afraid of losing. In fact, this is not the case. Your life will turn into a nightmare. For every minute you are late from work, there will be an interrogation with addiction. White light will not be nice. In a fit of jealousy, he can easily take your life or cripple you. Do you need it? This cannot be forgiven, do not close your eyes to excessive jealousy.
False
If a man is constantly lying, even in small things, this is a very big reason to think about whether to continue the relationship. A pathological liar is a diagnosis. He lies so that it is impossible to understand where he is telling the truth, and where he is again inventing. Not only does he lie on every occasion, he himself believes in what he says. And relationships, as you know, are built on trust. How to build them with a person who does not know himself where the truth is, and where is his fiction?
All kinds of addictions
If you see that a man is abusing alcohol or drugs, this is a signal for action: run! The faster the better, cutting all ties. Addictions include constant sitting on the phone or at the computer. Are you ready to constantly watch your man play tanks while you perform his duties?
Cruelty
If you saw that he is cruel towards animals, or towards someone who is weaker, this cannot be forgiven. Then, when the relationship becomes serious, this cruelty will be shown towards you and your children. Do you want this?
Using you to achieve your goals
If you see yourself sitting on your neck, it's time to say goodbye to your partner. This is something that cannot be forgiven. Because it will only get worse.
