Marital relationships are not always perfect. Men often offend women, someone suffers from alcoholism, someone torments them with jealousy. Wives don't have to put up with all this, so they can try to get rid of their husband.
How to decide to part with your husband
If you decide to put an end to your relationship with your spouse, you need to start with yourself. Living with an unloved husband, a woman often cannot part with him, not because she does not know how to do it. The fairer sex simply feel sorry for the people to whom they are accustomed, and cannot find the strength to put an end to it. They try to help the unfortunate spouse with something and believe that everything will change soon. In addition, some families have children for whom women are ready to endure any bullying from a man. In no case should this be done. If your spouse has behaved this way all these years, and not otherwise, it will not get any better. Living with a tyrant or an alcoholic for the sake of children is stupid. Understand that your little ones need a real strong family. What example can an unlucky father set for them?
How to part with your husband forever
Once you understand the need to end the relationship, think about the possible consequences. You must be sure that an offended and abandoned man can try to take revenge on you and your loved ones for such a betrayal. After assessing the situation, file for divorce and deal with the division of jointly acquired property. Even if your husband did not begin to show aggression, you still need to stop living with him in the same territory as soon as possible. Rent an apartment or move to your parents or other relatives for a while. If you are concerned that your husband may still harm you or your children, consider moving to another city temporarily or prevent him from learning your new address. Children can be transferred to another school.
If you have made a decision to divorce, it is your responsibility to notify your husband. Choose the right time for this and talk to your spouse. You must tell him about the reasons for your departure and the impossibility of further living together. If you are afraid that he will show aggression towards you, you can simply pack up your things and leave when he is not at home, and put all the explanations on a piece of paper.
When you leave your spouse, you need to avoid meeting and talking with him as much as possible. Change phone numbers, try not to intersect with him on the street. Any meeting can bring you negative emotions.
Sometimes, after a divorce, former husbands begin to persecute their wives. In this case, you can contact lawyers or law enforcement agencies. There they will tell you what to do next.
