Very often, women experience bitterness that a spouse does not come home in the state in which they expect. Many are faced with the problem of alcoholism. What to do?
Very great stress and daily tears of grief will haunt the woman who has linked her fate with an alcoholic. There are many reasons for alcoholism: it can be misunderstanding on the part of loved ones, difficulties at work, self-doubt, impotence, dissatisfaction with a sexual partner, and much more. Therefore, for alcoholics, the only way to drown out their problems is to drink.
It is much easier if the alcoholic admits his illness and the wrong way of life, tries to somehow overcome this habit. Then there is a certain chance that a person will get out of the state of binge and his life will improve.
But what if the alcoholic does not recognize this problem? If you want to live joyfully and truly, then it will be the greatest folly to associate your life with an alcoholic. The only desire of such a person is to drink, and more and stronger. And he absolutely does not care about the feelings of parents, children, and other relatives. Each day will pass according to a certain scenario: in the morning an alcoholic has a hangover syndrome, and you have scandals; I have no money, I was fired from my job, I have to hangover. In the evening, you will also wait for the same thing: instead of resting, spending time with the child, with the family, the woman shudders convulsively at every sound and waits for the drunken husband's arrival.
Children also suffer greatly from such a father, since he does not realize what he is doing when he comes home at 3 in the morning, and, despite the fact that everyone is asleep, he can make a scandal or even a fight. Unfortunately, changes for the better in such a situation, when a person is not aware of their problems, are practically reduced to zero.
Over the years, this situation can become even more difficult. Take a look at yourself in the mirror, if you no longer see a cheerful young girl who married a handsome, confident man, and in front of you is an aged and tired woman, then you may need to end the relationship. Your friends and neighbors will turn their backs on you, and the worst thing is that your children will suffer.
Alcoholics are actually quite dangerous people. In fits of drunken rage, an alcoholic can cause serious harm to health and life, not only to his wife, but even to children. From now on, every day will pass according to the scenario described above, you will be scared to see your spouse. In this case, there is only one way out - it is to grab the children and run as fast as possible from such a house, so as not to inadvertently run into big trouble. Except for you, such a person is unlikely to be waiting for someone somewhere. It turns out that your life is passing you by. Consider, is it really worth living with an alcoholic?
