If during adolescence, there are problems with the behavior of the child, advice for parents will help.
Instructions
Step 1
The behavior of a teenager leaves much to be desired, accept the fact that it is useless to fight with him, stumble upon an aggressive response and an even greater desire to do everything in defiance of his parents. If a scandal ensues and the teenager begins to behave violently, calmly leave the room, not letting the scandal flare up. Remember, your main weapon is patience, adolescence does not last forever, all this will pass.
Step 2
You should not interfere with the privacy of a teenager. Until you see a clear threat to his health or life, stop controlling, this is very annoying to the teenager, he will shut himself out even more from you. Just let me know that if necessary, you are always there, open to communication. Having shared the problems with you, the child will not meet accusations and criticism, but only support and the necessary assistance. Wait for the child to come to you himself.
Step 3
Communicate with your teen on an equal footing. Inadequate, rude behavior on his part can arise from his desire to assert himself, to show and prove to everyone that he is already an adult and does not need obsessive parental care at all, therefore he repels them in every possible way. Therefore, ask for the child's opinion on serious family issues. Expand the range of his responsibilities around the house, more often ask him for help.
Step 4
If a teenager shows open aggression towards his father, or the mother and the behavior is not within any framework, he must be pulled back, forced to come to his senses and stop behaving like that. Most importantly, do not use offensive words, threats and ultimatums. Talk only about the wrong act that upset the parents and you need to immediately stop behaving like this and apologize.
Step 5
Do not show open dislike for the teenager's surroundings. Do not express a bad opinion of them in front of a teenager. Friends for a child during adolescence are at the top of the list of interests. Therefore, invite them home, calmly, respectfully communicate with them. Let the child see, even though you don't like these people, you show respect for the teenager's opinions and choices.
Step 6
If none of the above tips work, you cannot cope with the child on your own, you can contact a school psychologist and another specialist for advice.
