Falling in love is a common part of growing up a teenager, but often he is alone with this feeling, completely withdrawn into himself. How to recognize a child's first love?
First, the child becomes absent-minded, inattentive and forgetful, thinks about something for a long time, hiding in an empty room, sometimes forgetting to even turn on the light when evening comes, and sits there in the dark. It happens that he suddenly has an increased appetite, and sometimes, on the contrary, he practically does not eat anything for several days. And sitting at the table, without any emotion, he looks at the ceiling, or just drives a spoon over the plate.
Another sign of teenage love is lightning-fast mood swings. Either he (or she) is ready to fly up to heaven, or else, falling with all his might on the sinful earth, they feel like complete insignificance and experience the deepest depression.
A very important signal for loved ones is excessive attention to their appearance and appearance. The child spins for hours in front of the mirror, scrutinizingly peering into his face, details of clothes and figures. Thinks over a new image to the smallest detail, sometimes changing beyond recognition.
During the period of falling in love, the feelings of a teenager are exacerbated to the limit. He becomes easily vulnerable and sensitive. Sometimes it seems to him that he can move mountains, and at such moments his soul flies up to heaven. A teenager is completely detached from reality, then he has a desire to perform some unthinkable feats, or suddenly he becomes selfish and withdrawn to the limit, declaring that he does not care about others and the whole world.
Be that as it may, but first love causes a whole hurricane of emotions. It happens that these relationships and feelings are so serious that they develop into marriage.
